SYNOPSIS
In my opinion, nothing – if you are trying to use the validation from others to influence your decisions on your mission.
If you put the need for others to confirm and validate your path, calling, action steps, you’re shooting yourself in the leg. And giving away very necessary component – your power and intuitive knowledge.
Obviously, let’s surround ourselves with excellent, great people, they will help you and support you, but if our action taking is even subconsciously dictated by a desire to be seen, validated, understood, our choices will always be in the hands of others. And we are not the most capable ourselves then.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DROP THE EXPECTATION
Simply, peace and personal power. Your internal reality will be more peaceful as you are not subconsciously trying to convert and persuade everyone to accept you, your choices, actions and direction. There is internal freedom – to move in this life, operate and live.
Grieve that you wanted it and didn’t get it when you needed it to get it, then let go.
Obviously there will be people who get it and celebrate with you, but by removing the expectation you will stop subconsciously trying to meet expectations of others and do things in a way that would gain “approval”. Which makes you capable of aligning even better and making effective choices.
You also drop demanding others to be certain way – more inner peace – and better relationships.
Energetically this looks like strong life force, strong inner current and boundaries. The pressure and slight clinginess (which happens when we need to have others to accept and validate us or our choices vs simply resting in our Truth) has disappereaded and there is centeredness aligned with our inner core.
YOU WILL GAIN MORE INTERNAL CONNECTION WHEN YOU STOP EXPECTING OTHERS TO VALIDATE YOUR CHOICES IN YOUR PURPOSE
Same as people who are doing their own thing in any other avenue, when you dedicate yourself to your “path”, there most likely will arise:
- Scepticism, doubt
- Resistance (to change)
- Disruption
- Projections
- Shifts in dynamics
It is easier to simply accept the fact – and be at peace.
What you get in return is: strong inner connection, true self, internal freedom and power.
CONCLUSION
In my opinion, this is something that everyone has to learn how to navigate in order for to be effective here and operate in a higher way. Our lives are filled with relationships – and the missions are always connected with people – so the quicker we learn to navigate this aspect, the better for us personally and for the reasons we came here for.